Being a Healer by Reverend Felecia Mulvany, D.D.

Why did you become a healer? 

I hear many different answers to this question, like wanting to help a loved one or "it's my spiritual path".  But most healers respond by explaining their need to heal themselves. And many say that once they found ways to heal themselves they wanted to help others heal. Helping others heal can give us a sense purpose, maybe even a reason for why we needed healing, a Divine lesson in order to learn the tools needed to help others.   

Regardless of why we become healers, it is important to know, and what many teachers of healing do not teach, is that we do not heal others, we facilitate others in their own healing process.   If someone does not want to be healed, whether they are conscious of it or not, they will not be healed.  And we must always ask for and receive permission to facilitate that healing process. It doesn't matter what healing modality we use, Reiki, Vortex, Matrix, Color, or even Spiritual Counseling, Hypnotherapy, or Psychotherapy, etc., permission must be given. When we are unable to physically ask for permission, like during a natural disaster in another part of the world or the person is unconscious, we may ask the persons higher self for permission. If we are unable to get a clear answer we may send healing energy to the person's higher self for them to use in whatever way best fits their needs and without attachment to how that energy is  

used or even accepted.  

Working without permission, or working from a need to heal others, places us out of accordance with free will, and creates karma for ourselves. When we come from a place of forcing our own beliefs of what and how a person needs to heal, or with a specific outcome in mind, we are working from ego. We are no longer being of service or continuing our own healing.  We are serving ourselves. 

When working with others, we must get permission, put ourselves aside and be totally present for the person we are working with. It is not about us, it is about using the tools we have learned to  

be of service to others.  

We have chosen to be here now, as healers, for a reason. The world needs healers. The world needs you, you as a channel of Divine unconditional love and healing energy. Use the tools you have learned for personal healing to facilitate others in their own healing process. 

With heart felt gratitude, I thank you. 

Namaste  

Reverend Felecia Mulvany, D.D.

President Sacred Foundations, Inc.

www.sacredfoudations.net

staff@sacredfoundation.net

Phone/Fax 877-877-4275

Developmental Asset of the Month - FEBRUARY

YOUTH AS RESOURCES

Young people are given useful roles in the community.

This document is designed to help adults throughout Silicon Valley develop materials and activities to promote the asset of adult role models.

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The Importance of Youth as Resources

People of all ages want to feel that that they make a contribution and play a meaningful role in their community, whether at home, at school, or in the neighborhood. Research shows that youth who feel valued and useful 

have higher self-esteem, a greater sense of personal control, reduced delinquency, greater social and personal responsibility, reduced substance abuse, and better social skills. 

Most youth in Silicon Valley don’t feel that they have opportunities to contribute to their community. In Project Cornerstone’s 2011 survey, only 53% of 4th- 6th graders and 35% of 7th-12th graders reported that they are given useful roles. To help address this  problem, February is Youth as Resources month in Silicon Valley. This asset focuses on including youth in decisions that affect them and creating participation and leadership opportunities where their contribution makes a difference.

The following discussions can help youth recognize opportunities

 to serve as resources

· What would you like to share with adults about your experiences in  your home, school, neighborhood or faith community?

· Who are some adults that you could talk to about making positive changes?

· How will you know when these changes happen?

· How would you like to be recognized for your contribution?

 Keep in mind that serving as a resource doesn’t have to be a large effort. Adults can help youth serve as resources simply by asking them to share their opinions, skills, or knowledge, such as how to play a game or use technology such as text messaging. Remember, it’s important that young people’s efforts be recognized and celebrated! Be sure to create opportunities to show that you value each individual’s unique contributions.

This article was provided courtesy of Project Cornerstone’s Asset-a-Month program. For more information, visit www.projectcornerstone.org.  

 Activities

For families

· Hold family meetings. For example, one meeting can focus on discussing which kinds of tasks each household member is best at and enjoys the most. Then, review everyone’s current chores and make changes based on each other’s skills and interests.

· Involve children in planning events such as holiday celebrations or trips. For family events, young people can help plan menus and cook, or plan games and activities for younger children; for vacations, they can research destinations and activities.

· Ask children what they do or don’t like about their daily routines, and find ways to improve them.

For all adults

· Ask a young person to teach you something new—a game, a hobby, 

      a computer skill, etc.—or to share their favorite music or YouTube videos with you. It’s empowering to be able to introduce adults something that they don’t already know.

· Ask a young person for advice on solving a challenge or completing a task. You’d be surprised at the quality of suggestions you receive. 

· Be sure to notice young people’s contributions and talents in every aspect of their lives.

· Help a young person find age-appropriate opportunities to serve as resources in their community. For example, many cities and towns have a youth advisory committee or other group of young people who provide input regarding issues affecting youth.

For adults who work directly with youth

· Does your organization allow young people to sit on boards and committees that affect its mission and programs? Including youth input at the highest levels not only creates valuable opportunities for young people but also helps your organization ensure that it’s in touch with the needs and desires of the youth you serve.

· Be sure to create opportunities for all youth to feel like valuable resources. For example, a county sheriff’s office found that youth with low grades wanted to volunteer in the community as much as better students, but the community rarely asked those underachieving students to contribute. All young people deserve the opportunity to feel that their opinions and contributions are valued.

At school or in youth programs

· Create leadership and contribution opportunities in your classroom or programs. Groups such as student council, playground peace monitors, traffic safety patrol, and others are great ways for young people to feel like their contributions are valued, especially if they have some responsibility in making decisions for the group. In younger grades, classroom responsibilities like line leader help students feel like their contributions make a difference to the class. Middle and high school students can even help interview new staff and participate in school improvement teams.

· Invite students to share their opinions and suggestions about activities, and incorporate their suggestions in the future. Give young people choices about which activities they take part in.

· Encourage young people to write letters to the editor, to companies, or elected officials to share ideas or express opinions. Help them develop and share constructive suggestions to address their concerns.

About the Asset-a-Month Program

The goals of the Silicon Valley Asset-a-Month program are to help align adults

throughout our diverse community in their efforts to promote positive youth

development by fostering developmental assets. For more information about the

Asset-a-Month program, contact Project Cornerstone at (408) 351-6482 or 

info@projectcornerstone.org. 

Reverend Felecia Mulvany, D.D.

President Sacred Foundation, Inc.

www.sacredfoundations.net

staff@sacredfoundations.net

Phone/Fax 877-877-4275

Synchronized Meditation for Syria and ISIL

Each of us carries in us a spark of the Divine.  Each time we blend these sparks in a prayer of intent we have the ability to create an alchemical spiritual moment. James Twyman is offering all who choose to participate such a moment.

Thank you Reverend Thomas Garry Reverend Doti Boon for sharing this opportunity with us.

Reverend Angela DeBry, D.D.

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